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  Just pass me a cigarette and hold on

  by Eyebrow2 in

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  been a while since i have had a chance to visit the board.

  a lot of things have happened...dealing with some business crap....ending one and starting a new one with a partner this time...dealing with child custody issues...my husband was laid off....just general stress....arghhhh!!!!.

  everything is going to work out i am sure...but i bought my first pack of cigarettes in 10 years on sunday.

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  When Can I be Selfish??

  by snbdye2000 in

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  i am not a jehovah's witness, nor have ever been.

  i cannot even come close to relating what that is like.

  however, my husband has been studying with them.

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  YOU ARE NOT BEING SELFISH!!!!!

  HE is being selfish if he is not making it a joint decision. He is part of a pair. He has pulled the rug out from under you and does'nt want you to be angry. Probably you should get some counciling so you don't waste years of your life trying to hang on without help. Maybe it can speed up your thought processes. Sounds like you already know you won't tolerate this long. Dr. Phil would call this a deal breaker.

  Is he trying to attone for his past and show God what a fine upstanding person he is trying to be? Is this the permission he needs to be abusive if you are not in submission to him? Your daughter is caught in the middle. The stress of opposition between her parents will be far more harmful then what ever belief system she may be taught.

  He needs to love you and respect your beliefs also for you two to come to a compromise and live together peacefully if not you will resent him and grow to hate him. If you are miserable in a marriage...your children are in a miserable marriage with you. You have a choice. They don't.

  IMHO
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  COFFFFFEEEEE!!!!!!

  by Soledad in

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  i'm so thrilled i bought my stove top espresso maker today!!!

  yipeeeeee!!.

  i've been looking for these for months!.

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  Wild Horses,

  I had not heard of egg shells but I put a couple shakes of a salt shaker in my grinds before brewing. My Granny always did that for the same reason as the egg shells (to cut down on the bitter taste). It does give it a smoother taste. The egg shells are calcium are'nt they? so it would be like putting a Rolaid in the pot to cut down on acid maybe???

  I have a programable coffee pot and consider it one of life simple pleasures, waking up to hot coffee. Almost like having a maid. I wish the maid was there last weekend when hubby forgot to put the pot in and turned the coffee on auto. I had water and coffee grounds ALL over the counter top, what a mess.

  Yep, a couple cups of coffee and JWD first thing in the morning....Life is good.
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  Ladies only!!

  by Scully in

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  got this story from a friend....last night, my friends and i went to a ladies night club.

  one of the girls wanted to impress the rest of us, so she pulled out a $10 bill.

  when the male dancer came over to us, my friend licked the $10 bill and stuck it to his butt cheek!

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  Now THAT was funny. Guess you could call it a dirty joke.
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  Trying to track down a pedophile...

  by Elsewhere in

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  there has been some interesting activity today, and i don't think it is jw related!

  let me elaborate a bit.... .

  my phone's log shows two different phone calls from the area where i grew up in se texas.

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  Maybe you could join classmates.com and someone there may remember him. Maybe (probably not) he is a registered sex offender and can be looked up for that town.
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  The Loss of Innocence.....and Recovering

  by Frannie Banannie in

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  in mulling over the almost 6 decades of my life, almost two decades of which were spent being enamored of just one more false religion, then spending the following decade discovering all of its deceptions, i feel a tremendous loss of innocence.

  as though i were a victim of sexual assault, i don?t now believe that i will ever recover an ability to believe or trust in anyone where religion or blind faith in anything is concerned again in this lifetime.

  because, to me......that?s what faith is.....blindness.

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  Frannie,

  I totally understand what you are saying. I was thinking not to long ago about something like that. I was wondering if people are all wired different. If something happens when you are very young, does that wire you to think a certain way forever, or is it biological. I was thinking to myself how I remember all my physical hurts growing up with great clearity. Likewise all my emotional hurts. It is if they are branded with a hot poker into my memory. With each branding a scar is raised never to be pristine again. Why does the poker of unfairness, injustice and deceit create a bigger scar then stupidity and ignorance? I don't remember the good things with the same emotional attachment as the bad.

  Is it a long lost survival trait that bookmarks painfull things as dangerous. Is it adrenaline? Is this so we remember not to do it again?

  I can picture my life (from birth on) as a pure white sheet hanging out on a breezy sunny day blowing to and fro. All was well until a bird landed on the line, then another and another, then a whole flock of birds came to roost on the line. At first it's not too hard to brush off a spot or two but after awhile I started getting stiff, then stiffer, then the weight of all the poop pulled me off the line. Now I'm so bogged down with bird poop if I bend at all I may break.
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  Long-time lurker introduction

  by Momof4 in

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  i wanted to say hello and introduce myself.

  i am probably one of the longest lurkers here ever.

  i've been lurking for almost three years now, and i enjoy reading a lot of the posts.

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  Welcome Momof4. You have officially been delurked!

  Glad to hear you all got out. Looking forward to hearing your story.
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  ~ Leave flowers, graphics, well wishes, prayers for Dansk ~

  by FlyingHighNow in

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  dear dansk,

  may you relish all of life's little pleasures.

  a cup of your favorite tea.

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  JWs can't spell

  by Nosferatu in

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  i was reading some comments on randy's site, and lately i've been noticing a trend - a majority of jws can't spell.

  i've seen them come on here and their spelling is very poor.

  here's an example: what a nut case!

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  Wat du u meen tha kant spel?
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  Would you consider this murder or?

  by kls in

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  logans thread on murder had me thinking of a tale shall we say and i would like to know if you feel this is murder or?

  ,,,,,,,,,two people live together ( a man and a women ) and they are both severe drunks.

  they are living in an upstairs apartment and have been drinking non stop for weeks.

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  It was totally and accident. Nobody saw her push him down the stairs. She even heard him slam the door when he left. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. That doesn't explain why she had to step over the body for weeks as she went out for a beer run though.

  It would not be murder because there was no intent. It could be manslaughter because her actions caused his death. Then again she was insane to have a stinking body in her house for weeks. I'm so confused.